so, I finally got some…
It’s rather pathetic, don’t you think, that I feel the need to announce publicly each and every time I get a little action? The lobbyist was in town, we exchanged some texts and, after scrambling for a...
View Articledeconstructing attraction
Most of us are pretty good at noticing when we’re attracted to someone. And often, we don’t take the time to analyze why or what it all means. So let’s take a moment to break this down: There’s the...
View Articleare my feelings finally growing up?
There are things I don’t reveal here …and maybe shouldn’t ever reveal. Not every entry lends itself to complete and full-on truth. It’s not a journal I’m writing here; it’s a blog. And I want to shape...
View Article…and I thought this was going to be funny!
So…when I began writing about all this divorce and dating garbage a few months ago, I somehow imagined that I would be having all kinds of interesting relationship experiences that I could write about,...
View Articlebecause I think you should know what you’re getting in to
I love the story in Elizabeth Gilbert’s Committed in which she talks about making a list of her greatest faults for her beloved, to ensure he knows what he’s getting in to. And so, below, I think I’ll...
View Articlemorality, ethics and self-worth
I had a lovely little IM exchange with a gent I know the other day…this is the man who has a crush on me, but is married. Apparently, “the fam” left him alone in town while they took a little summer...
View ArticleI got my back
So that same chap who suggested I’m over-analyzing all of this, well, he said something…I should say emailed (and, heavens! I do much prefer to actually talk in my relationships — phones are okay, but...
View Articlefeeling giddy
I’m on vacation. I brought the children to Chicago to see some sights…and you know who’s in this town: Chi-guy! I’ve already seen him (and, sadly, he’s feeling sick)… But, oh, what a gentleman! What...
View Articlethe Chicago trip Chi-guy wrap
Having mentioned my Chicago family vacation and seeing Chi-guy, I feel somewhat obligated to provide a bit of a summary. And it’s been a few days since my last post… First, let me divulge that I know...
View Articlelove triangle
I have a thing for a man at the office. It’s odd, really: He’s not the tallest nor darkest nor handsomest man around, yet my insides turn to mush when I run into him in an elevator or hallway; I blush...
View Articlecan a modern woman love an old-fashioned man?
Here I shall reveal my latest idiocy: I had happy hour with the guy…yeah, the one I can’t get over. Something inside me thinks: it’s been a long time, I won’t still feel it, we’ll just catch up like...
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